longing for a return to a something that obviously didn’t work in the first place


Be careful of comfort sex with an ex. Although comfort sex might be the most tempting with an ex, for me, this has been a slippery slope. Sex with an ex is loaded with all kinds of other issues anger or disappointment over the break up, longing for a return to a something that obviously didn’t work in the first place, and of course, memories that can trigger distress rather than comfort..